Quick Quotes: Benzino Chimes In On Chad and Evelyn + Jennifer Williams Reaches Out To Evelyn

By LMB Staff on

Seems like everyone has something to say about the recent domestic dispute that resulted in Basketball Wives cast member, Evelyn Lozada being headbutted by her soon to be ex-husband Chad Ochocinco Johnson.

Depending what side of the fence you are on, you may feel as though Evelyn got exactly what she deserved and is now tasting a bit of the karma behind her actions against members of the Basketball Wives cast, or you may feel that no matter what nothing warranted her being attacked and/or headbutted by her husband Chad.

While a lot of celebrities have come forward with statement, remarks and/or jokes [I see you Bill Bellamy and D.L. Hugley], there have been a few to step forward offering word of advice, comfort and a listening ear if need be.

Love and Hip Hop: Atlanta cast member and love doctor Benzino recently gave his two peas on the situation over at Bossip, stating that the same way Evelyn and Chad felt it necessary to play out their love lives on camera, is the same way that love ended.

“I think the Chad Johnson and Evelyn situation is a situation where reality TV has to be careful because, everybody wants a marriage, everybody wants to see a marriage. But when you look at the Kim Kardashian thing with Kris Humphries and with the Chad and Evelyn thing, if you’re gonna marry somebody, if you’re not madly in love with somebody and really have that spiritual, physical, emotional connection with somebody, then it’s not a good idea to go into a marriage with somebody based on money, based on fame.

Because all that does is put two people together that eventually are just gonna get frustrated with each other because they have to be with each other. I just think that they got frustrated and things happen, of course I feel bad for Evelyn also because nobody should suffer any injuries, there should be no violence between man and woman period. If you’re put in that situation you’ve gotta make sure it’s sincere because you may end up paying for it later.”

Meanwhile, rumored [former] Basketball Wives cast member, Jennifer Williams who received the most lashing out and abuse from Evelyn Lozada on the reality show last season, put her pride aside [better than me] and reached out to Evelyn via twitter letting her know that she is praying for her and hopes all is well with her.

Sending my love… And keeping you in my prayers.

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http://www.sexyfocusedambitious.com/ Lauryn Doll

I know everyone jokes on Benzino and asks dude where his neck is at, but truthfully speaking, that was some real sh-t he just said. You marry for money or fame, and then you get resentful because you’re stuck with that person. I don’t know about him and Karlie Redd but I hope he finds his match.

As for Jennifer, I’m glad she’s put aside her pride and sent her love. I wouldn’t be surprised if she came through and showed her the love she has for Ev to rekindle their friendship. Bottom line, Evelyn threw her friendship with Jennifer out the door for a d*ck. . . and while I liked Ev and Ocho together, at the end of the day it was one big publicity stunt. Nobody should tolerate abuse, but at the end of the day all it took was 39 days? Something in the milk ain’t clean.
- http://www.sexyfocusedambitious.com/ Lauryn Doll
  
  Okay and I’m just going to add, no matter what their motives were – and I really truly want to tell myself they did this out of love – no matter how short or loveless a marriage is, when you decide to divorce, that sh*t hurts. NOBODY gets married to get divorced. NOBODY – unless their heart is cold as ice and they really had no desire to be with someone. So I feel for both of them. This rant isn’t about them and money or motive, it’s speaking from the heart of someone who is close to the experience of dissolved marriages.